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Kintsugi

Japanese pottery has a concept called kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold.  Cracks are not hidden, they are highlighted and honoured.  The break becomes the beauty.  What if we treated our emotional wounds like that?  Instead […]

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Vulnerability

It is human nature to want to be seen and understood.  We rely on friends for a sense of acceptance and understanding.  Being willing to be vulnerable is an essential part of fostering close and […]

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How’s Your Bank Balance?

HOW do you repair after a conversation when tempers have been lost and inappropriate words spoken harshly?  After a heated disagreement, couples make the common mistake of avoiding the topic completely for the sake of […]

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Genuine Listening

HOW do you demonstrate that you care about a person?  For some, it may be by gift giving; for others it could be a helpful hand; some demonstrate their care through cooking. What about the […]

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Mind Your Mind!

WE CAN go three weeks without food, three days without water, three minutes without oxygen but we can’t go three seconds without thinking.  Our mind is in a state of constant chatter. In an age […]

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Filling Your Cup

I’m not a fan of new year resolutions.  Mainly because they tend to become a wish list of things I never quite achieve, leaving me feeling disappointment in myself.  Perhaps you feel the same.  What […]

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Teenage Years

By Linda Gray We have been looking at how our developmental stages influence us into adulthood.  Teenage years are a period of establishing identity and exploring where we fit in this world.  Teens test family […]

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Parentification

FOR a few weeks we are considering particular emotional wounds possibly experienced during the stages of our development.  Parentification occurs when a child is forced to take on developmentally inappropriate emotional, physical, or logistical responsibilities […]

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The Stage of Exploration

TODDLERS are explorative touching machines on a constant journey of discovering their world.  Research has underscored how critical this phase of development is.  The nervous system and muscle coordination are developing at their most rapid […]

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The Developmental Process

Last issue we talked about the importance of understanding our inner world and how we collect wounds on our journey through life.  Developing insight requires basic knowledge of our developmental process.  From the moment of […]